Ultimate Guide to the Best Bachelorette Party Ideas
Sifting through the slew of bachelorette party ideas for your favorite gal pal can be daunting and overwhelming.
It’s supposed to be her last horah, so you want it to be as fun and unique as the bride-to-be herself, right?
Whether you’re looking for a relaxing getaway, a wild night out, or something totally unexpected, the options are many!
I’ve been to my fair share of bachelorette parties, and I recently helped plan one for my friend of more than twenty years.
A bachelorette party is all about celebrating the bride in a way that feels true to her style, so let’s explore some of the best ideas out there and help you find the one that is perfect for your friend group.
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Planning the Perfect Bachelorette Party
When starting the planning process, I always like to go right to the source. Ask the bride outright what she’s envisioned and what she actually wants. There’s not use researching cheap beach getaways when what she really wants is to kick her boots up and country line dance in Nashville!
- Plan a bachelorette party that fits the bride’s style and what she likes.
- Consider the bride’s favorite looks, hobbies, and colors when planning the party.
- Make sure to include activities that will be fun for the entire bachelorette group.
- Plan your bachelorette party decorations ahead of time and add something personalized for her.
- What you decide to do to celebrate will dictate everything else, especially your bachelorette outfits. A night listening to country music at a bar is going to have a completely different feel than a relaxing spa day and rom-com movie night.
Unique Bachelorette Party Ideas for the Bride to Be
- To figure out the most unique and best bachelorette party ideas, take a moment to sit down and consider what makes the bride unique.
- Think about her childhood, what she loves to do on the weekends and what she does for a living. The best way to make the party unique is to make it all about her.
Attend a Bachelorette Cooking Class
- Take a cooking class or hire a private chef for a fun experience that’s tasty as well.
- Learn to make a new delicious meal with your friends.
- This is both a fun and interactive experience.
Go Winery or Brewery Hopping
- Visit a winery or brewery for a tasting-themed bachelorette party.
- Take a tour of the vineyard and enjoy wine samples.
- Consider hiring a party bus to visit multiple wineries or breweries without worrying about driving.
Go Hiking or Camping (for Outdoorsy Groups)
- Take a hike or outdoor adventure with your friends for a fun and active experience.
- Enjoy pretty views and some fresh air.
- Nothing feels better than getting outside and actually moving your body. Plus this could make for some great pictures depending on where you all decide to go.
Flower Arranging Tutorial
- Inspire a new hobby by booking a private flower-arranging class for everyone.
- This idea is great especially if the bride and most of the guests live locally, since they can take those arrangements home with them after the party.
- This is a win/win because you learn a new skill and get something pretty to take home.
Picnic Luncheon
- This can be simple or elegant -plan a backyard picnic at your home or rental home.
- Add some cute gingham blankets and tablecloths, and old-school linen napkins for the perfect picnic feel.
- Grab her favorite food, snack and drinks and make it super personal to her.
Photo or Video Montage
- Have friends share photos and videos of their favorite memories with the bride. Piece them all together into a slideshow as a surprise for the bride
Secret Buddies
- A few weeks before the bachelorette party, assign a secret buddy to everyone in your crew.
- Set a spending limit and ask guests to bring a gift for their buddy to the party. Take turns opening gifts and guessing who they came from.
Permanent Jewelry
- Think of this cute bachelorette party idea as the grown-up version of friendship bracelets.
- The idea involves choosing a thin chain, usually 24-karat gold, and welding the ends together in place of the clasp so that the bracelet or anklet stays on 24/7 (if necessary, most can be easily removed with scissors).
Candle Making
- This creative bachelorette party idea that you can do at home with your own supplies or with the help of a professional candle-making studio.
- And even better: making the candles doubles as a fun group activity and gives guests something to take home from the party.
Adult Summer Camp
- If you dreamed of going to sleepaway camp á la The Parent Trap as a kid, why not make your own grown-up version?
- Coordinate matching summer camp-inspired uniforms for your friends, then deck out your party space with cabin-themed decor like colorful pennants and red checkered tablecloths.
Boudoir Photoshoot
- The prewedding boudoir shoot doesn’t only have to be for the bride.
- Hire a glam squad of professional hairstylists and makeup artists to hype everyone up, then pose for boudoir-style portraits with cute lingerie and pinup-style outfits.
Murder Mystery Night
- For a unique experience, consider organizing a murder mystery party with a downloadable game kit. You could even hire a professional company to help you out.
Pole Dancing Class
- This bachelorette party idea will be a memorable girls night for anyone who hasn’t tried pole dancing.
- Stereotypes aside, it’s a serious workout and major confidence booster, even for those who aren’t married or in a relationship.
- If you don’t have access to poles (ahem)… consider learning a strip tease. Your husband will be begging you to take more girl’s trips if you bring home what you learned!
Burlesque Show
- Head to a nearby cabaret theater for a night of drinks, music, entertainment and “all that jazz: – sorry couldn’t help but add a little Chicago reference.
- Look for one with table service so you can avoid battling a crowded bar or missing part of the show.
Indoor Skydiving
- This option is safer than actual skydiving but just as adrenaline-pumping, making it a great bachelorette party activity, especially for first-timers.
- Not to mention the action photos and videos your group will snap while watching everyone in-flight.
Pottery Painting
- Book a group session at a paint-your-own-pottery studio or take a ceramics class to try your hand at throwing pottery on the wheel. If Demi Moore can do it in the movie Ghost – the rest of us can do it, right?
- This activity is perfect for those who want to get creative and relax.
- It’s a great way to bond with friends and create a unique memento.
Potluck Dinner
- Host a potluck dinner at a private house or a local park.
- Ask each guest to bring a dish to share, making it a fun and interactive experience.
- You can also provide a few guidelines, such as a specific theme or ingredient, to make it more challenging and exciting.
Massages and Meditation
- Book a private room at a wellness center or hire a team that offers onsite massages and meditation services.
- This activity is perfect for a relaxing and rejuvenating experience.
- You can also customize the experience with aromatherapy, essential oils, and calming music.
Slumber Party
- Host a slumber party at a private house or a local hotel.
- Provide cozy blankets, pillows, and pajamas for a comfortable and relaxing experience.
- You can also set up a movie night with a projector and screen, or have a DIY spa station with face masks and manicures.
Karaoke Night
- For a fun and vibrant setting, consider booking a private karaoke room to sing your favorite songs and enjoy a themed atmosphere.
Pool Day
- Rent a house with a pool or host a pool party at a local community center.
- Provide pool floats, towels, and sunscreen for a fun and relaxing experience.
- You can also set up a BBQ or a picnic with refreshing drinks and snacks.
Sunset Cruise
- Charter a private boat for a couple of hours. This of course can only happen if you’re at a location on the water.
- Provide light food and wine for a relaxing experience.
- You can also customize the experience with a private captain and your favorite playlist.
Trivia Night
- Host a trivia night at a local bar or restaurant.
- Choose categories inspired by the bride’s favorite things, such as reality TV or cheesy romance novels.
- This activity is perfect for a fun and competitive group.
Antique Shopping
- Map out the must-see antique shops in the area.
- Provide a budget and guidelines for the group to follow.
- This activity is perfect for a unique group that is up for a challenge!
Silent Disco Night
- Find a silent disco party in your area or book the DJ and party to come to your house. This is such a fun party and it ensures everyone moves to a beat they like!
- You’ll want to dress like like dynamite for a night like this so check out my post on the best disco ball dresses.
DIY Cocktail Bar
- Set up a DIY cocktail bar at home with different mixers, juices, and garnishes.
- Let everyone create their own signature cocktails.
- This is a fun and interactive way to celebrate the bride-to-be.
Spa Night Extravaganza
- Host a spa night at home with face masks, manicures, and other pampering activities.
- Set up a relaxing atmosphere with candles, soft music, and comfortable seating.
- This is a great way to unwind and relax with the bride-to-be.
Themed Costume Party
- Host a themed costume party at home with decorations, music, and activities that fit the theme.
- Encourage everyone to dress up in their favorite costumes.
Wine Tasting Soiree
- Host a wine-tasting soiree at home with different types of wine and cheese pairings.
- Set up a sophisticated atmosphere with candles, soft music, and comfortable seating.
- This is a great way to celebrate the bride-to-be in a classy way and not have to worry about driving.
Escape Room Challenge
- Host an escape room challenge at home with a customized escape room kit.
- Set up a challenging and interactive puzzle that everyone must solve together.
- This is a fun and exciting way to celebrate the bride-to-be.
- Use this experience as inspiration for planning your next bachelorette party with creative and interactive games.
Outdoor Movie Night
- Host an outdoor movie night at home with a projector, screen, and comfortable seating.
- Choose a favorite movie of the bride-to-be and set up a cozy atmosphere with blankets and snacks.
- This is a fun and relaxing way to celebrate the bride-to-be.
Crafting Fiesta
- Host a crafting fiesta at home with different craft stations and activities.
- Set up a creative and interactive atmosphere with music, snacks, and drinks.
- This is a fun and creative way to celebrate the bride-to-be.
Karaoke Extravaganza
- Host a karaoke extravaganza at home with a karaoke machine and a playlist of favorite songs.
- Set up a fun and energetic atmosphere with music, snacks, and drinks.
- This is a great way to celebrate the bride-to-be with a fun and musical activity.
Rent a Home—and Make a Party of It
- Rent a home or villa for the weekend and make it a party.
- Set up a fun and relaxing atmosphere with decorations, music, and activities.
- This is a great way to celebrate the bride-to-be with a fun and memorable experience.
Country Girl Party
- Grab your cowgirl hat and boots and head to the nearest country bar for some line dancing!
- You can also research if there are any country concerts planned nearby and take your crew to a show. Nailing the wardrobe is half the battle here so check out my post on the best country concert outfit ideas.
Bridal Party Swag
Disco-Themed Bride to Be Sash
- This holographic bride-to-be sash is perfect for a disco-themed bachelorette party!
- The bride will show up to her “last disco” in flashy style wearing this sash.
- These are handmade and can be customized to say different phrases.
Adorable “Bride” Necklace
- For a subtle touch, get the bride this simple necklace.
- Everyone at the bars will know it’s her night with the word “bride” written in sparkly letters on her neck!
- This would also be a great accessory for a bridal shower, rehearsal dinner, and more wedding-related events!
Future Bride Crewneck in White
- Want to get the bride something comfy?
- Get her this sleek white-on-white “bride” crew neck sweatshirt.
- Size up for an extra comfy fit!
Bride Cowgirl Hat for a Themed Bachelorette Party
- Cowgirl hats are the ultimate bachelorette party accessory.
- This bride cowgirl hat says bride in rhinestones, has white fur trim, and features a long veil in the back.
- This is a fun bachelorette gift for the bride, especially if all the other girls are wearing cowboy hats as well.
Bride-to-Be Veil for the Bachelorette Party
- What is more iconic for a bride to wear than a veil?
- This “bride to be” veil is the perfect accessory for a bride at her bachelorette party!
- You definitely don’t have to worry about the bride standing out from the rest of the bridal party in this!
Bride Iced Coffee Cup
- This customized glass iced coffee tumbler is a beautiful bachelorette party gift for the bride.
- This cup comes with a glass straw and wood.
- It’s eco friendly, reusable, classy, and practical!
Heart Shaped Bride-to-Be Sunglasses
- You can’t go wrong with adorable sunglasses!
- The bride will absolutely love this cute accessory.
- And, you can customize it to fit her personality!
Cute & Funky Bachelorette Party Invites
- An adorable illustrated take on bachelorette party invitations.
- This cute color combo is so much fun ~ and could fit in perfectly to a bold theme.
- Your bride-to-be will absolutely love this design!
Coastal Bachelorette Party Itinerary and Invite
- Hosting a beach bachelorette party? Then you might want to consider this coastal bach invitation and itinerary template!
- The design is insanely cute, and has the perfect vibes for a laid-back, pool party vibe.
Bachella Invitations
- Does the bride love music festivals? Use these coachella-esque “Bachella” invitations!
- You can all wear music festival outfits, listen to your favorite music, and dance the night away!
- We love how cute and easy to customize these templates are!
Simple Cute Bachelorette Invite & Itinerary
- Not sure what the theme is going to be or just want to keep it simple?
- These black and white script invitations will work for any bachelorette party!
- Keep it minimalistic while giving your group all the details they need.
Hand-Drawn Blue Bachelorette Invitations
- A unique twist on the typical bachelorette party invitation.
- This hand drawn design is perfect for the creative and artsy bride.
- Customize it with your party’s details – everyone’s going to love this choice!
Hand-Drawn Blue Bachelorette Invitations
Cute & Spunky Bachelorette Party Invitations
- These blush pink invitations are another great option for a funky retro themed bachelorette party.
- These invitations work well even if you don’t have a theme.
- If your bride loves neutrals and bold designs, these are perfect!
Retro 70s Themed Bachelorette Invitations
- For a retro 70s style or “Dazed and Engaged” bachelorette party use these fun flower power invitations!
- We love the color scheme, daisies, and funky 70s-style font.
- You can customize these templates however you want and include any details you need everyone to know.
Games and Entertainment
Left/ Right Game
I love this game and have used it a bunch for baby showers, wedding showers and bachelorette parties. I like it because you can throw it together last minute, and it’s totally personalized to the bride and groom. You just have to write down the bride and groom’s story.
You could tell about how they met, their courtship, their engagement story, whatever you want. Every time you say the word “left” the present gets passed to the person on the left. Every time you say the word “right” the gift gets passed to the person on the right.
For example, “John left Mobile for San Francisco and knew right away he’d made the right choice.” The lady holding the gift at the end of the story gets to open and keep it.
Bachelorette Bingo
Add a twist to your bachelorette party with Bachelorette Bingo! This interactive game features bingo cards with words or phrases related to the bride-to-be, such as “her favorite drink” or “her favorite song.”
The bride-to-be and her friends take turns marking off the words or phrases as they are called out, and the first person to get five in a row wins.
10 Questions Game
I also recently did this one for my friend’s bachelorette party because my niece’s had done it recently and suggested it. You message the groom and ask him to secretly record himself answering 10 questions.
You put his answers on a Canva slideshow (super easy) that you’ll play at the party with the ladies. Before you play his answer, pause the video and make the bride answer the question. Hopefully their answers line up.
Questions include things like, “What did each of you wear on your first date?” and “Who kissed whom first?”
Bachelorette Party Game Bundle
Why settle for one game when you can have a whole bundle? The Bachelorette Party Game Bundle is a collection of games and activities designed to make your bachelorette party unforgettable.
The bundle includes a variety of games, such as “Drink If” and “Tipsy Land,” as well as other activities like a scavenger hunt and a photo booth.
Decorations and Favors
Decorations and Favors
There are tons of ideas for favors including personalized koozies or cups, t-shirts and fun gift bags. You don’t have to break the bank to make it fun and memorable.
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Conclusion
No matter which idea you choose, the most important thing is to make sure the bride-to-be feels celebrated and loved.
Whether it’s an adventurous weekend getaway, a chill spa day, or a night of unforgettable memories with friends, the perfect bachelorette party reflects the bride’s personality and the special bond you share.
So go ahead, get creative, and start planning a celebration she’ll never forget! Happy partying!
Hi I’m Erica! TV news anchor and mom to 4 littles. I’m obsessed with creating those “wow” moments in life through crafting at home, cool travel adventures and special celebrations with loved ones. Thanks for joining me on this adventure!
